Why ‘change’ doesn’t have to mean becoming someone else

“Nothing changes if nothing changes” “Old ways don’t open new doors” “Things won’t change unless you change” Quotes make change seem so easy, don’t they? A few choice words read at the right time can have even the most cynical amongst us believing that we can turn ourselves from Deirdre Barlow into Kim Kardashian overnight. […]

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September: focus, failure and dusting off our pencil cases

Eeek!! I can’t believe it’s September already! Soon enough the c-word (Christmas) will start circulating, whispered quietly at first by those who seem to spend the whole year counting down the days till its return and then mumbled grumpily by the rest of the population as they realise that Slade’s Merry Xmas Everybody and an inexplicable […]

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Why I’m no longer comparing myself to other people

I’ve read a few pieces on other people’s blogs recently about this topic and, as I have a terrible habit of comparing myself to others, I’ve been working hard to take on board any advice that’s been offered as an antidote. Having said that, I can’t help but feel that this is easier said than done and I’m […]

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Why I decided to start a blog (and why you should too!)

I’m frequently asked by my non-blogging readers (yes, I’m as surprised as you are that there are people out there without blogs who are actually reading my stuff!!) why and how I got into blogging and so I thought I’d write a little post about it to fill you all in. ***** I’ve always enjoyed […]

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August: afternoon tea, self-imposed rest and a (long overdue) photo pledge

I’ve always found August to be a strange month. As many of us pack our suitcases and happily head off on our summer holidays, normal life for those left behind becomes suddenly suspended. Towns, I find, are often deserted; activities you might normally take part in – gym classes, baby groups etc. – are now either […]

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Should we be competitive with our friends?

Monday is World Friendship Day (also known as International Day of Friendship) and I’ve spent a great deal of time over the last couple of weeks trying to decide exactly what it is that I want to say about friendship to mark the occasion. I have at least five unfinished, or barely started, posts on […]

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Summer goals

Here it is, readers! A post I promised to write in my latest Monthly Musing and one that – quite miraculously – I haven’t immediately forgotten about!! And I’ve written it within a week – go me! If you’ve read July’s Monthly Musing (and if you haven’t, then why the heck not?!), then you’ll know that […]

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July: blogging goals, friendship break-ups and a (little) summer whinge

Summer is not my favourite season – there, I said it. I know it goes against the summer-related excitement that I spoke about last month, but once we’re a few weeks in my enthusiasm for everything summery inevitably starts to waver. Don’t get me wrong, I love that the days are longer, lighter and warmer; […]

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Polzeath & Port Isaac: crab sandwiches, creamy ice-cream & true British grit

You know you’re on holiday in the UK when you’re eating ice-cream on the beach with your coat on and still wishing you’d worn more clothes! I just love the spirit of British holiday goers in summertime – you’ve booked a week on the coast and no matter what the weather (in this case heavy […]

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June: seasonal conundrums, holiday excitement and fudge…lots of fudge!

Yes, June, YES! I know summer doesn’t officially start until June 21st, but once I begin writing the word June instead of May, I struggle not to get excited! Here in the UK, we’ve been treated to some glorious weather over the past few weeks and although I’m not stupid enough to expect that to continue […]

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Facebook makes me feel like a teenager again (and not in a good way)

It’s not just me, is it? Every time I login to my account (because, for my own sanity, I no longer have the app on my phone), I immediately feel as if I’m fifteen again. The fact that a large proportion of my Facebook friends are people I went to school with (many of whom I […]

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Why I’ll never be a fashion blogger (*weep*)

This post is in no way disparaging about fashion bloggers – let me say that before we go any further. In fact, I’d really love to be able to include fashion content on My Bellyful, but, sadly for me, I have absolutely no fashion sense WHATSOEVER (note that the capital letters highlight exactly how useless […]

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Mental health and me

Before I start this (and I feel like I begin most pieces with some sort of caveat), let me say that this is a big one. A seminal post that needs to be written as much as it needs to be read and as it’s Mental Health Awareness Week, I can’t help but feel that […]

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Should our lives be Insta-perfect? (And is that healthy?)

Before I start, let me just say that this is not a rant about Instagram or the people who use it. I have an IG account as do many of my friends. It’s a great platform not just for photo sharing but for meeting new and inspiring people (the filters aren’t half bad either!!). I […]

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